At the start of each class we have what we call “the circle”. The entire class forms a big circle and we spend some 10-15 minutes doing various exercises which make us more aware and present in our body.
It’s a sort of gateway into the class, with a sign that says “leave your thoughts and worries outside”. During the day we spend so much of our time making plans, dealing with issues, thinking about the past and the future, that we often forget that our life is happening now; and the circle is here to, among other things, remind us of this fact.
And yet, it is not easy to constantly be present, especially in the circle itself.
Why is this? Why is it, in general, oftentimes so difficult to be present in the now? Why does it often feel like having a constant wrestling match with your attention?
It’s like we’re waiting for this moment to pass in order to get to the one that matters. The circle, being an entry into the class, thus might seem like not as important as the class itself.
But it is important. Every moment is.
Now is exciting. Now we feel what we feel, now we sense what we sense. Now we’re here, so why should we try to be somewhere else?
I think one of the main reasons is because no one has ever really taught us neither why nor how to be present. Actually, it’s the how that’s perhaps even more important – in order to be present, you need to continuously practice being present.
This is why it feels like a wrestling match; because in a way, it really is one. Due to numerous circumstances, this is a skill (for want of a better word) that we are very bad at, and this is why it’s difficult to attain it. So, we must practice.
“Why do you want to look at your cell-phone now? Can’t you think about that project tomorrow? Why is this exercise boring to you? Why do you want to fast-forward to some other cool moment? What’s wrong with this one? Do you really have a good reason not to be present?”
These are some of the questions that I keep asking myself in every class, especially during the circle, whenever I notice my attention is not on the now.
It’s not easy, but I’m slowly getting better at it. I’m also trying to notice all the other moments in my life when I’m not present and I should be.
Like right now: Instead of just typing this post, I’m alt-tabbing every 20 seconds or so to my web browser.
to be continued